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Wednesday, 6 April 2016
Love and Beating
Few days ago
I came to now that a boy has been brutally beaten up by some people; the people
are no other than the brother (With some of his friends) of that girl with whom
the boy was in love.
Hearing the incident
lots of questions were raising in my mind, now I think I must share the
questions with you to know your view points, hope I will get answers from you.
When a boy
and a girl are in relationship of love, sometime it happened that the brothers
of that Girl beats the lovers of their sisters, every time A Boy is being
blamed for the relationship?
They are in
love, they both have contribution to make this relationship, they both have
made commitments and they both have performed some activities that the lovers
Then why only
A Boy is blamed or sometime accused?
brothers and the family members want to prove by beating the boy? ----Yah
obviously they want to prove that---The boy has trapped their Girl.
ridiculous matter it is!!!!
Nobody asks these
stupids about the activities performed by their girl, but I should not call
them “Stupid” because they hide the proofs which can explain the truth of their
Girl---they are clever.
Beeti ko fansaya hai iss Ladke ne”
You can hear
this many times.
bete ko fansaya hai iss ladki ne”
ever heard that a Girl has been beaten up brutally by some people for trapping
the first one the second one is negligible.
When a boy
is blamed, accused or beaten for being in love with a girl then we immediately
admit…the boy is wrong and the girl and her family members are right, may be
not every time but most of the times it happens.
thought that came into mind is…
When a boy
is blamed and beaten up then why the girl (His lover) doesn’t make protest, why
she doesn’t come to front and don’t tell that the boy is not guilty, why she
doesn’t admit that they both were in love? After the beating incident the girl
is just disappears from the scene…
If you can’t
stand by the side of your lover then you should not make love, if you don’t have
the courage to face the world then you should not be in a relationship of love.
I wanna ask
these girls…what about the promises you made to your lovers. What about the
dreams you showed your lovers? What about the commitments that you promised to
perform for life long? What about the
love you promised to shower upon him?
Now let me
share another view point…
never loved him truly, he was just a entertainer in her life, she wanted to
enjoy some moments in her life, she wanted to made someone Bakhra, and when she
came to know that a particular boy is in love with her so she utilized the
feelings of that boy and when she became satisfied then, to through that boy
out of her life she informed her brothers that the boy is disturbing her for
few days---now being beaten brutally which one will have courage to open the
mouth and to speak the truth????
It’s just a
view point and thinks if this one is true then what will happen---this is the
era of women empowerment, lots of girls and women are trying their level best
to uplift the social condition of women and in this situation now if such a
fraud girl (That I have mentioned above) start to make contribution in women
empowerment then----one girl is enough to accuse wrongly and falsely ten-twenty
It can also be
seen that…after beating the lover and accusing him that he trapped their INNOCENT AND IMMATURE GIRL---“Meri Beeti ko fansaya hai iss Ladke
ne”---within the six months of this incident the guardians of the girls arrange
the marriage of their girl and they promise the grooms family that the girl is
mature enough to bear the responsibilities of a family---
irony!!!!---it’s the same girl who was INNOCENT
and IMMATURE just six months ago
and suddenly in last six months she has become MATURE enough !!!! Six months ago she was not capable to maintain
even a single relationship (LOVE) and now suddenly she is ready to maintain number
of relationships, in-laws, husband etc through marriage.
I just wanna
request The BOYS and The GIRLS….
love just for fun…because your fun can destroy someone’s life. Before promising
someone be sure to yourself that whether you have the capabilities to keep
those promises in opposite situation in life, if not then don’t make false
promises and don’t play with the emotion of others.
to understand and try to deeply realize what Love is…then start a relationship…
If you don’t
have PURITY and TRUTH in your love, if you don’t have the tenacity to WAIT for your lover, if you don’t have
the mentality to make SACRIFICES for
your lover then be sure that---you never loved/can love someone truly ---
life like a selfish person and yah it’s
not a fault---it’s your choice....
but you don't have any authority to play with the emotions of a person.
“Life is not
a bed of roses”----we carry on our struggles and fights in opposite situations when
its related to our carrier or something only for us---but when we face
obstacles in LOVE then we immediately withdraw ourselves from the relationship
and after few months or years we find someone another with whom we can SECURE our life.
to kill someone than to break his heart brutally….Jyotirmoy Sarkar.
Guys I would
like to have your comments, those are very valuable for me….